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31 comments:
The Bonner vault???????
Looks like a diary key maybe ?
Maybe a black book?????
Music box? Jewlrey box?
Too small for Dad's tool box that Cliff has........
I wouldn't know since I've never seen the Black Book.
Where did you get this key from ?
It was between the two ashtrays...that I probably stole...
Too bad the digs still continue... That happens to belong to mom's suitcase, so perhaps she could get it back as she needs it in a few weeks.
Isn't it nice that mom is getting out ?
She probably could use some fresh air....
Don't tell her till it's time to go...or she won't......
No, actually Judy mom will go with us whenever we offer because we are the ones who take care of her and know her physical needs the best. I am sure Peg and Bonnie and Frank can relate to that. She does not always remember when and where she has plans to go due to memory issues.
I think her memory loss has contributed to several of these fueds. Siblings have chosen to attack one another instead.
Yes...it would be really interesting to hear her decisions if we allowed her to make them as she did prior to this....which aren't followed.
Mom says she is going to WVa,,,she doubts that she needs to lock her suitcase.....
Had a nice conversaion with Mom today...she is beating herself up becuase she made such a fast decision to give away her things.....she blames herself .....I wish people would have encouraged her to sit tight instead of running the horse race to get rid of her stuff. These things sometimes are what older people know and cherish and hold onto.
I told her they are only "things" but she insisted she should have thought things thru and really, she wanted in her heart for a daughter to have some of these things.Any daughter.
I',m not sad...just sad for my mother.
I told her I love her and she was better...and by the way, I;ve asked four different times now and she doesn;t remember the "pin"...so it must have been a really good day when she wanted to know who took it.
Nobody was running a horse race to give mom's stuff away. Did you give her advance notice to give you and Peggy items? To think about it? No one has "hurt her feelings" or made her feel guilty about giving the pin and glass items away to you and Peg, or the things she gave to Carol, and that is why it does not bother her. She made that decision freely, and was happy David took the items, ask David yourself. You turn mom's memory to good or bad to fit your needs for the day...really sad.
No sweetheart....you guys make Mom look like she can't remember anything or make a decision based on what you want to do.
I'm just telling you what she told me....from now on I am recording Mom's conversations here at the office...since you don't seem to believe me.
I'm not trying to fight with you over it...it only is "stuff"...and if Mom wants I;ll bring the pin back, her platter,a if need be, I'll return the little chair. Very sad.
And then I WILL HAVE TAKEN NOTHING OF MY PARENTS.No momentos at all from their life...Mom or Dad. Make ya feel good???
All this discussion over a suitcase key? I doubt mom needs it for the WV trip, but whats the point in keeping a key in your possession that you have no use for? Unless you really like seahorses, I have to believe the purpose is just to have discussions like this and pick fights with family publicly. That seems to be the purpose many of the comments made. As far as I can tell, the only logical use for a suitcase key is to lock a suitcase. If you don't have the suitcase, the key serves no purpose. The notion that it is a "mommento" is a bit of a stretch. So i say either keep it or give it back, but why make a such a big deal about little things.
Judy,
This is my last response on this blog. I will not look at it again because I will not allow it to bring me down. It is unhealthy to treat other people in this manner and make our family look bad. I have made numerous attempts with you at making peace, but this and more still continues. You cannot separate your personal issues with your brother Dick from your relationship with me, and that is really too bad. As sisters we had a very close relationship; everything that family should be about. But somehow putting mom’s money aside for her use to live in my home her last years instead of an institution changed that. What are you thinking? Is your anger over this for the past 18 months worth ruining your relationship with me? Apparently so. I need to move on and focus on taking care of myself first so I can take care of all the other people in my life I am responsible for. I have my mom, kids, ill husband and a host of patients to care for every day. I have to be strong and have a clear mind, free of the negativity and hostility I have gotten from you. I will focus on continuing to do the right things for mom. After all she did entrust this with me 14 years ago when her memory was fine. She also chose to move here to live with me when her memory was fine, and trusted and loved me enough to allow me to take care of her. I made her a promise and I intend to keep it, no matter what. You cannot change that. I will try to mend brokeness with my other sisters if they are willing. I have been accused of “being up to something” for taking mom to the doctor lately. The only thing I am “up to” is to try to get her some help for her memory loss. I am sure Dr. Tackas can verify this. It is really sad that she told him her biggest life issue was that her kids don’t call or come see her much…you can verify that with him too. For now I will say “goodbye” because I am too tired to continue to try to resolve any more issues with you. I have had enough. Please do call and come visit your mother as she needs you. You are welcome here to do that. As for coming to see me, please do not bother until your other realtionship issues are settled.
Patty
Pat...
You still don't understand that it was the way things were railroaded and the way you guys took control. Never was the family considerd properly...you guys failed to consider that Dad and Mom have ten children.And yes, Mom put you at the top of the list to handle her funds, affairs,and her health; with ME named as number two.She made this choice instead of Dick ,as she said no one could communicate with him...and that was 14 years ago.
I understand, and have understood from the get-go, that Dick put you in the middle.You have been put in a position that made you choose.You have admitted that he "misconstrues" the facts from time to time.This fueled the fire.
I , (And Kathy or Linda or David or Billy or you or whomever) have never "STOLEN" from Mom....we again this last month, have been told that we have gone thru Mom's bedroom and stole things. THIS is the BIG issue.THIS is what has blown this thing wide open again.Dick reopened all this...Kathy and I will not stand for being called these things.
I also understand that he put you under the microscope...is he still? I can't call Dr Tackas to ask anything about Mom...Dick threatened to sue the Dr. over the Hippa Law for talking to me last time.So he knows how disfunctional this family can be.I was instrumental in him opening his office in Newbury...the man knows I'm not an idiot.
Where do we go...??? Your sisters here are suffering as much as you are...we ALL miss and love you... However, we refuse to sit here and let someone tell the family that we STEAL from our Mother. Do we not have the right to defend such an ugly acquisition?
Things WERE relatively quiet and slowly returning to the old ways...you know I was coming more...and we seemed to be putting things behind us, It sometimes takes time to heal on both sides.
I did not start this war back up....it was waged against me.Kathy and I stand shoulder to shoulder as we both have been so unjustly targeted. This is sad...as we had such good times at your house, with you and Mom.
I will continue to call and visit Mom...she is the looser is all this.
There is a Holiday weekend coming on....and I know originally a family meeting was mentioned. I fail to see how we can all get together when things are so fired up. I do believe that this whole family, regardless of any of the previous fighting, is due a report of some type of where Mom's offical health issues are and how her finances are under the new management. We are not pulling an"audit", we just are part of this family.
You may not be reading this...but let me close with you are loved a lot even if you think not...and we miss you...much discussion has been had the last week or so on how we can fix all this....we just haven;t come up with how.....we thought we were on the road to recovery once before.I personally think we need that sister getaway...just the sisters.
I love you Pat..
I agree with Patty. I'm done with the board too. Its dead. It raised things to a new level, pushed things way to far and burned me (and others) out. I will not pull it up or post to it ever again.
How can anyone read Pat and Judy's comments and not realize that Judy is making a genuine effort to try and get to the crux of the problem and fix things with Patty ?
Why can't someone just agree that yes, there are two sides to every story and let's just lay the guns down and try to fix this thing for once and for all.
This comment is directed to anonymous....the last post...you read and contribute comments that you are done with this board, that it has burned you out & others yet you post anonymously...what's up with that? I think this board has in it's own twisted way been a way for people to get things off their mind and bring things to a head...sort of like a drunk that needs to bottom out before he can begin recovery. I've seen in the last two days the sisters bottom out and are giving way to their recoverys. Now all we have to do is to find a way to keep Dick from sabotageing it. I think he really enjoying keeping his sisters apart. So if we all can get past the "Dick" thing I truely believe all will be healed.
P.S. I never said I am keeping the key did I?
Yes Peg....I think the "Anonymous" person who just backed up Pat doesn't even have the gutts to show their name. It's always easy to say these things when you don't have an identity.
How come I haven't been informed about the day and time of when I am going to be proved a liar and a thief....my two weeks will be up on Tueday...maybe Dick will let me know through the "BLOG" and post a court date for me!
JUST MAYBE...THE KEY WAS SOMEHOW IN THAT ASHTRAY FOR AN UNKNOWN REASON...MAYBE TO SOMEHOW..IN A CRAZY WAY...UNLOCK THE WAY TO GET THE SISTERS TOGETHER AGAIN....
I think the "key" ran the video equipemnt......
Hmmmm....now what the hell could that mean ?
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